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sam 2011-1-7 15:06

職場的黑色隧道

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: normal; "><div class="uiHeader uiHeaderBottomBorder mbm" style="margin-bottom: 10px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(170, 170, 170); padding-bottom: 0.5em; "><div class="clearfix uiHeaderTop" style="display: block; zoom: 1; "><div><h2 class="uiHeaderTitle" style="font-size: 17px; color: rgb(28, 42, 71); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">【今日閱讀】職場的黑色隧道 ◎楊基寬/撰</h2></div></div><div class="clearfix" style="display: block; zoom: 1; "><div class="mbs mbs uiHeaderSubTitle lfloat fsm fwn fcg" style="float: left; margin-bottom: 5px; font-size: 12px; font-weight: normal; color: rgb(128, 128, 128); "><a href="http://www.facebook.com/read.life" style="cursor: pointer; color: rgb(59, 89, 152); text-decoration: none; ">閱讀</a>寫於 2011年1月7日 13:41</div><div class="uiHeaderSubActions rfloat" style="float: right; "></div></div></div><div class="mbl notesBlogText clearfix" style="display: block; zoom: 1; margin-bottom: 20px; font-size: 12px; line-height: 1.5em; padding-right: 100px; word-wrap: break-word; "><div><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">我想跟讀者做一項交易:如果我拿七千萬給你,而只要求你從此以後不再換工作,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">也就是說放棄轉職的權利,你願意跟我做這項交易嗎?」</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">各位稍加計算一下會發現這是一筆非常划算的交易,因為我們從25歲進入職場到60歲 退休,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">總共工作35年,七千萬等於給你35年年薪200萬,這樣的待遇對受薪階級而言</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">是非常高的價碼!百分之九十九的人是不可能在職場上賺到這麼多錢,因此不換是很可惜的。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">聽眾的回應中出現一幅很有趣的常態畫面,30歲以下的年輕朋友會悍拒此項交易,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">40歲以上的 上班族則會很欣然交易,30-40歲的青壯年則會猶疑不決。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">這三種截然不同的反應我將它解讀為『黑色隧道』效應。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">所謂黑色隧道指的是,你在職場上所有可能碰到的讓您厭惡的現象。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">由於你不可能在 一天之內經驗完畢所有這些職場現象,因為它們是陸續出現在你的職涯中來折磨你,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">因此我把它稱做『黑色隧道』,因為裡面潮濕陰暗讓人很不舒服。這個隧道的長度大概有十年之長,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">它的計算方式是從踏入完全陌生的職場的第一天起,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">我們大概要花十年的時間才可幾乎經歷過這些職場百態,十年後這些職場現象祇 不過是不斷再重複而已。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">30歲以下的朋友會拒決交易的原因是,他們對自己的格局、命運與能力懷有意識型態 上的高估,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">因此才開始碰觸到一些初階版的職場挫折時,譬如說自己的主管是豬頭,&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">他們就會直覺地將豬頭事件放射成工作的全部,忘了其他值得歷練的價值,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">譬如說把 在豬頭下完成任務視為更具挑戰性的歷練,就匆忙從黑色隧道撤退,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">改走最率性的一條路:離職,認為總該找得到沒有豬頭主管的公司吧!</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">因此轉職這個取之不竭用之不盡的工具是他們尋找更好出路的寄託所在,他們當然不願意與我交換7000萬。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">40歲以上的朋友會願意交易的原因是,由於悟不出『三噸礦石才能煉就一克拉鑽石』 的原理,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">捨棄了藏在黑色隧道中最有價值的歷練壓力,在過度使用離職權利後,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">最後卻發現自己的年紀與能力已經形成反比,終於比較務實,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">他們當然願意放棄這項無法讓他們培養深度內涵的轉職權利,來與我交換7000萬。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">而30-40歲的人之所以拿不定主意的原因是他們認為自己還有一些想像空間,還可以拗,所以不大願意交易。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">我舉個例子來說明:「一個26歲的年輕朋友,本來做內勤員工,做得非常出色,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">而因 為外務失職,公司就調他去做外務,結果這個朋友決定離職,因為他不喜歡做外務。」</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">如果這個朋友不承認有黑色隧道,他就會怪公司為什麼要讓他去做他不喜歡的事情,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">而如果他相信有黑色隧道,就會認為公司因相信你而派你去做別人做不到的事情,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">一是對你過去的肯定,二是對你未來的信任。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">同一件事情,一旦你承認有黑色隧道,態度就豁然開朗,因為你很清楚這是成長的唯一路徑,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">假設你沒有這樣的態度,你就立刻啟用離職的權利了。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">一個上班族一輩子如果只做自己習慣勝任的事情,不去改寫自己的地平線,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">一輩子同樣一件事情做35年,不如早跟我換七千萬算了!</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">在我們進入職場的前十年主要任務是去創造下半輩子永不為職場困擾的實力與成熟度。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">所以35歲以前是賣方身份,你沒有自主權,由別人來決定你的價值,凡事最好從學習的角度來看事情,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">以便讓自己在36歲時能成為買方身分,因為買方才有資格挑公司,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">挑老闆,挑主管,挑薪水,挑窗戶有多大。這個十年就是讓自己從價值低的礦石&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">萃煉成一克拉鑽石的黑色隧道。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">一旦那些從歷練的角度看事情而從黑色隧道順利走出來的人,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">最後也會發現不值得跟我換7000萬,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">因為他會找到自己的真正價值,</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">他會是愛因斯坦所說的那個人:</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">不要試尋找成功,試著尋找自己的意義。</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">【版主曰】</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">親愛的朋友,你還在黑色隧道打滾嗎?</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">快快找到出口吧~趁著你還有清醒意識的時候</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">尋找自己的意義</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; ">&nbsp;</p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>如果你喜歡這篇文章就按個【讚】</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; 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